DEAR DEIDRE: A FRIEND who briefly had a fling with my husband is now playing the victim after I forgave them both.
Whenever we have our weekly catch-up, she has the nerve to complain that seeing me and him together so regularly is affecting her mental health.
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If we bump into her in the village, she sometimes tries to ignore us.
How do we get our friendship back on track?
I’m 34, my husband is 36 and we are still together.
He’s trying to make it up to me, being very kind, patient and loving.
He seems to have forgotten what he did and is just so pleased we’re together.
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I’m happy too, but also constantly reminded of what they did and trying to deal with the pain.
I’m the one with a broken heart.
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DEIDRE SAYS: Your husband does sound genuinely sorry.
Keep talking to him. Let him know you are still hurt and give him the opportunity to keep reassuring you.
My support pack Cheating – Can You Get Over It? will help.
Regardless of whether you want to remain friends, it is healthy to let your pal know how badly she hurt you and how you feel about her.
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Her response will help you decide whether she is worth keeping as a mate, or to cut all ties.
I know you want to maintain a friendship but it would help hugely to put some distance between you, at least in the short term.
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